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Jane guided me through the process of The Best 3 Months Vision Map beginning with the premise that I was facing a 3-months to live terminal diagnosis. We met for several sessions, each focused on the emotional, mental, physical, spiritual, and practical aspects preparing for my death.

Her gentle and precise questioning helped me understand areas of my life that were incomplete, and how to tend to them simply and directly. She guided me through the action steps, each one bringing more relief. I really feel that I can now "die in peace".

Jane also helped me visualize myself in my surroundings, through this final transition, and I could clearly see what I needed to do make myself more comfortable.

She also navigated me through getting resolution with my close relationships, and how to ask for what I needed. I was surprised how easy it was. With Jane's peaceful reflection I could see that it was not "too much", and that people would help me.

I was amazed to see how some of the practical things I did have made such a difference. I would have never realized that something like washing my windows for the last time would bring in so much "light".

Jane was also well-resourced with all the community resources that would be needed. There was so much that I had never thought of about or was aware of in the decision making around dying. There was a calm feeling that has stayed with me as Jane sorted through my fears, and my wishes. Now I have my Advanced Care Directives (and my after-death care) plainly stated, and my family does not have to wonder.

It wasn't until I went through the Death Doula process with Jane, and tended to some quite simple tasks that were hard to look at, that I felt more ready, and quite relaxed about it. I wish I had done it before. It really was a guide for life.

                                                           Jaymi D.

Working with Jane was both enlightening and helpful. Talking with her, going through the processes she carefully, kindly and consciously guided me, slowly made order of the overwhelm. Like an Angel, she took my hand and we walked together through all my concerns to make sense and meaning to where I was ignorant and worried before. Thank you Jane!

                                                         Sylvia E.